Mission
SpotlightedMe exists to give adults a small, quiet corner of the internet where they can ask a simple question - how do I actually look? - and receive honest, specific, non-algorithmic feedback on their appearance, style, creations or portfolio
Most social platforms flatten judgement into likes and follower counts. Our goal is the opposite: real human reviewers and private, low-stakes spaces where people can improve without broadcasting their insecurities to an audience
Principles
- Adults only The Service is restricted to users aged 18 and older. We take age-restriction and child-safety obligations extremely seriously
- Feedback, not social We are not trying to become a social network or a dating platform. Engagement is not a success metric for us
- Strictly non-adult The Service is for appearance, style and portfolio feedback. Sexually explicit, pornographic, nude and intimate material is forbidden
- Consent-first If a photograph or video depicts another person, that person must have consented to being depicted on the Service
- Transparency about limits We are honest about what the Service is not - it is not therapy, it is not medical advice, it is not a guarantee of self-esteem
What We Are Not
- Not a dating or hookup app
- Not a cosmetic-surgery consultation service
- Not a mental-health or therapy service
- Not an adult-content or pornography platform
- Not an algorithmic feed of infinite engagement bait
Read the Terms of Use, Privacy Policy, Community Guidelines and related legal pages for the full, binding description of what the Service does, what it doesn't, and where the Operator's responsibility ends and yours begins